recommended reading
This is a must see. I know it's not a book, but if you do nothing else watch this movie for you and your baby!! The Business of Being Born, a DVD starring Ricki Lake
The Thinking Woman's Guide To A Better Birth by Henci Goer
Ina May's Guide to Childbirth by Ina May Gaskin
Pushed: The Painful Truth About Childbirth and Modern Maternity Care by Jennifer Block
Born in the USA: How a Broken Maternity System Must Be Fixed to Put Women and Children First by Marsden Wagner
Gentle Birth Choices by Barbara Harper, RN 
Active Birth : The New Approach to Giving Birth Naturally, Revised Edition by Janet Balaskas
Natural Childbirth the Bradley Way: Revised Edition by Susan McCutcheon-Rosegg 
Birthing from Within: An Extra-Ordinary Guide to Childbirth Preparation by Pam England, R. Horowitz
The Womanly Art of Breastfeeding: Seventh Revised Edition by La Leche League International
Some additional reading suggestions from Amazon.com
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